For about the past several weeks now I have been going thru a major change in my life and rather than skip past all of it and continue with other topics I felt it was important to share this with all of you. Most of you know I have been working with another person in developing a center for children and parents. As time moved on it became very apparent that we were moving in different directions. Our interests, passions and life purpose were all at the fore front in this decision to end our partnership. It has been truly a stressful situation and it wasn’t until now that I was able to share this with all of you. After all the shifting and changes it allowed me to process and understand why the things had to work out the way they did. It wasn’t until we truly had our discussion that we both began to feel once again free and realize we had to release each other in order to do what we are both meant to do. In truth this transition gave us the catapult we both needed to move forward. Had we decided to carry on and deny our feelings for fear of hurting another would never benefit either of us or our purpose to help others.
In sharing this experience with you I hope when the time comes when you realize you are feeling right about something, or that you start to feel like you can’t breath or move forward that is a sign for you to make a change. Once you face your fear many doorways begin to open up for you, they certainly did for me right away. Sure it isn’t easy but once you face your fear you realize the only thing you truly feared was the change. How the other person reacts will only be a learning experience for you in helping you become a better person. The biggest blessing that I experienced is that from having that one very difficult conversation it lead to the both of us feeling much better and it open doorways and a new path for us to go along our way. The only word of advice I would like to offer is to be mindful on how you deliver your message. Be compassionate, thoughtful, choose words that honor the both of you. Remember to breath, relax and know that you are fully supported by many whether seen or unseen, it is a process. From this process you begin to become comfortable with being good at life.
Being good at life is how you face your challenges that come your way. Do you fear them? Do you escape? Do you run away? Or do face them? Do you ask questions for understanding? Begin to shift your thinking into the right brain way of thinking with your facing challenges. What would make you feel better? Does that honor your path or are trying to escape? The biggest thing that I faced was asking the question, what was it that I did wrong? I had to look at myself and learn from the experience so that I could move forward and become better at life, not only for myself but for the people around me. Even if your faults are small still look at them for they are pillars of your strength that you can build from. We are all human sent to learn from mistakes and our strengths and the faster you look at both the better at life you become. For it isn’t about the mistakes or the accomplishments it is simply about the journey. As always the choice is ours and I wanted to thank those of you who have supported the changes in my life and that of my co-founder and in the end we realize this is a new beginning and the way it was meant to be. Personally I will continue on the journey in supporting children and with the curriculum that I have been developing over the past several years. This has been an incredible journey that is still an on going process and my ultimate goal is to provide a space for children and parents to connect and understand the essence of who they are and meant to be. At the moment I am personally proceeding with these plans and would be grateful for your continued support. Remember to go out there and Be Good At Life for the choice is always yours!