Growing up as a little girl in Germany I had a small group of girlfriends that I would always hang out with but as the years went by and we all moved away I noticed it became harder and harder for me to connect with women. Was it me? Why was it always dramatic or competitive? Boys were a lot less complicated or more interesting to talk to. It wasn’t until my spiritual awakening and becoming a mother that I noticed a shift within my friendships. As my old friends dropped off new friends started to appear and they are much deeper spiritually and respectful of whom I am. I have thought for so long that it must be me but never did I consider that it was my choices in picking friends and quite possibly my age and maturity that really made all the difference.
That is part of the reason why I began the Intuitive Mother meet ups, because it allows spiritually based women to come together to talk authentically and share. It wasn’t until recently that I have begun noticing another beautiful aspect in finding soul sisters and that was support. When we call each other or Facebook message one another we lift each other up. All those thoughts that remain in our heads, all of our concerns or spiritual experiences that just sit with us become released. By resting our heads on one another and allow ourselves to learn from one another knowing when to be the teacher and when to be the student, the universe offers us the beautiful dance of ying and yang energy that fulfills and benefits the friendship. It is how friendships were meant to be.
I believe very strongly that women for far too long have often competed with one another, relied too heavily on materialism that has often overshadowed our true feminine beauty and grace. Part of what I do is offering that connection in allowing and respecting the person that I am speaking with to be whom they are meant to be without judgment. It is often times my own judgment or insecurities that pop out and that I must face, which is a wonderful learning opportunity. That is the reason so many of us women haven’t had deeper friendships growing up, we are not often encouraged to look within ourselves and why we feel insecure. Facing insecurity is facing your own ego. When we begin to face ego rather than listen and follow it women begin to see one another’s gifts. The best part about these new meaningful friendships are the sharing and learning that takes place. We know we are never alone, we realize that we are loved, but most of all we begin to love and understand ourselves that much more.
A divine sisterhood connection is a new kind of friendship one that is rich with empathy, strength, empowerment and love. For the past several days now the Angelic energy has strengthened within me and I felt the pull to adjust and enlign myself from within that best serves our feminine energy. We are all feeling this pull to become enlightened from within and from that will come great gifts and secrets that you never knew lived inside of you. We are all in this together and whether we realize it or not we are all going thru it together. I watched a wonderful movie called Epic last night and there is a line in the movie that just fits so perfectly well with this post. They say, “We are all one tree. We each are our own leaf unique and individual yet we are all connected to one tree.” So while we embrace our gifts that God has divinely activated within each and every one of us in order for our “tree” to remain healthy and standing we must not ever lose sight that we are all connected. Whether sisterhood or brotherhood we are all related beautifully unique and filled with purpose. Thank you for reading and with something to think about the choice is always yours.